tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7928620456241718383.post3043056370478474949..comments2023-10-10T08:46:16.922-07:00Comments on Mid Life Mommy: Moving onDaniellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06587186690785139860noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7928620456241718383.post-46050142311482410242009-11-01T11:28:58.887-07:002009-11-01T11:28:58.887-07:00Danielle, one thing you may want to do with the in...Danielle, one thing you may want to do with the inability to go to therapy is pick selected journal entries, and put them on your blog. While that seems a little crazy from a privacy point of view you seem to have a lot of strong supporters, except for Mind who seems only to corrupt you, and why not let those of us who have spent thousands of dollars give you feedback. Totally up to you of course but I would love to help and I am sure others would too. It becomes group therapy really and who knows your issues may touch a nerve with others and help them too. I hope you find yourself, I am absolutely convinced that there is something very valuable worth finding. Peace SteveAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7928620456241718383.post-18709754422680952492009-10-30T09:30:50.440-07:002009-10-30T09:30:50.440-07:00Oh, yes, I hear you, too! What you wrote on T'...Oh, yes, I hear you, too! What you wrote on T's blog this week resonated so deeply for me. That's where journaling helps me, too: to remember that many of these feelings are SO old, and the "adult" me can step up and help that little scared girl.... I look forward to reading more about your journey.Single Mom Seekinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04846340433536492232noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7928620456241718383.post-26651700526693528892009-10-29T10:02:00.229-07:002009-10-29T10:02:00.229-07:00Wow, big transitions. Good luck!Wow, big transitions. Good luck!Melissa Marishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15216312159880277204noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7928620456241718383.post-46990507230536254922009-10-28T14:42:47.533-07:002009-10-28T14:42:47.533-07:00I feel for you, on all counts. Therapy can be expe...I feel for you, on all counts. Therapy can be expensive. Glad you got some. Here's my short list of books that helped me through divorce healing: http://dadshouseblog.com/2008/07/29/great-books-for-relationship-and-divorce-advice/<br /><br />Happy hour(s) help too!dadshousehttp://dadshouseblog.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7928620456241718383.post-82103219279754940842009-10-28T09:28:40.110-07:002009-10-28T09:28:40.110-07:00Oh sure, just blame me for your late arrival home ...Oh sure, just blame me for your late arrival home and condition the next day! Little Miss "lets go downtown with this group at 11pm". Bet your glad I had the sense to stop you from doing THAT! ;) <br /><br />I'm always here for you.MindyMomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01103345017455083144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7928620456241718383.post-40958536826268398582009-10-27T23:36:49.274-07:002009-10-27T23:36:49.274-07:00You know you've gotta do what's best for y...You know you've gotta do what's best for you. Don't let the tears tug at your emotions. Sometimes it's too little too late.Candicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05553652923537266660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7928620456241718383.post-22623947242599842892009-10-27T17:38:20.215-07:002009-10-27T17:38:20.215-07:00Thanks for taking us with you. We don't mind i...Thanks for taking us with you. We don't mind if you sit on our couch for some therapy time...really...it'll be fine and a lot cheaper!Duckyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06195603673076986036noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7928620456241718383.post-63895309532485737822009-10-27T17:26:25.986-07:002009-10-27T17:26:25.986-07:00Give yourself some time. And I'm totally jealo...Give yourself some time. And I'm totally jealous of your night out with Mind!Aprilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12051174636017409935noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7928620456241718383.post-25942529064106701832009-10-27T17:21:35.732-07:002009-10-27T17:21:35.732-07:00Good luck. She asked me to move out, so that made ...Good luck. She asked me to move out, so that made it easier I think.Trooper Thornhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09914276373305636583noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7928620456241718383.post-71116735484915882882009-10-27T16:48:23.270-07:002009-10-27T16:48:23.270-07:00Thinking of you and your little girl. It is so tou...Thinking of you and your little girl. It is so tough.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7928620456241718383.post-49379980844569726252009-10-27T16:44:57.876-07:002009-10-27T16:44:57.876-07:00Sometimes people can't see past themselves unt...Sometimes people can't see past themselves until everything is disappearing...<br /><br />I wish you luck on your journey of self-discovery...I'm with you trying to figure it all out. A year out in front, I can tell you that it does get better, lots better. But it is still hard.<br /><br />Looking forward to reading as you grow.Samanthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00717891160388620268noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7928620456241718383.post-54912441774941134882009-10-27T16:40:56.059-07:002009-10-27T16:40:56.059-07:00Oooh wow, had no idea this was going on. Just the ...Oooh wow, had no idea this was going on. Just the fact you can write about it takes guts, I think you're going to be just fine. *hugs*Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7928620456241718383.post-60204647711361486282009-10-27T16:25:35.618-07:002009-10-27T16:25:35.618-07:00Yeah, therapy is so expensive, mine was charging m...Yeah, therapy is so expensive, mine was charging me the same amount.<br /><br />I find that a lot of men (not all) tend to procrastinate with issues like this. Also, men tend to grieve more in private. I am pretty sure that he'll feel lonely and try to either get you back or shack up with someone else early on. <br /><br />But I don't feel sympathy for him, he should've made an effort earlier to try and fix things. <br /><br />I think you're doing the right thing. I can't imagine what you must be going through, but it is better to free yourself from this now so you can find a better match for yourself while your daughter is still a toddler.Senoritahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13075972193214414769noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7928620456241718383.post-5449816619938010152009-10-27T16:10:12.686-07:002009-10-27T16:10:12.686-07:00It is always difficult to go through a major chang...It is always difficult to go through a major change. But it is usually worth it in the end. Good luck!Traciehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10612857982151448455noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7928620456241718383.post-26639075878080596602009-10-27T13:56:04.741-07:002009-10-27T13:56:04.741-07:00it is such an emotional time!!!!!! BUT as you know...it is such an emotional time!!!!!! BUT as you know, it will pass! And life will get better and better and then you will find you are living your best life..not just a better one!!Debbiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17680221201312100448noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7928620456241718383.post-69709924113168900652009-10-27T12:38:25.440-07:002009-10-27T12:38:25.440-07:00Good luck in these tough times.Good luck in these tough times.Mikehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13641318104807962051noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7928620456241718383.post-77067911194032929062009-10-27T12:15:22.711-07:002009-10-27T12:15:22.711-07:00Oh girl... That is tough. I'm glad you had som...Oh girl... That is tough. I'm glad you had some girl time to help you through it. Hopefully, the support system you've built will help.<br /><br />Sending you big hugs as you being your new journey. You'll be fine. <br /><br />XXOOhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10112766306021310705noreply@blogger.com